The deepest love

"I love you"... "I love so much" "I love you more than anything else"

There are two kinds of "deep" unrequited love.
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There is the -let it go- love. The love where you loves you so much, you are willing to stand back and let the other go on without you.. All you care for is their happiness, even if it isn't with you. You believe they deserve to be happy and have only the best wishes for them.

There is obsessive love. The "if I can't have them no one will" or the "I can't live without you, therefore without you, life isn't worth living". The "I will do anything in the world to win you over" love. The kind where you love someone so much, you refuse to let them go. The kind of love that makes you kill, the kind of love that self destructs.

Which love is truer? Is it real love to let someone go, or is that an indifferent kind of love? To love someone to the point of obsession, insanity, is that to love more?

Is love real anyway? Is it something that everyone tells you exists, so you believe it's true? Do you believe you can feel it too, because others says they do?
Is it a lie made up eons ago, that lives on through each person tricked into believing?


If I say I love him, is it because I want to take this feeling and give it a mainstream title? Is this love?